the friday night gang

The last few days have been jam packed, action filled days. I hosted a dinner party last night for my parents and their "Friday Night Gang." They are an amazing group of four couples in their seventies. They have been going out together most every Friday night for the last thirty years, and take their Friday nights seriously. None of their children would ever ask for childcare or any other "grandparent service" on Friday night - oh no - they. must. go. out. to. dinner.

They are a gentile group of retired business owners and professionals. They are the pillars of a small community, and that community has received the benefit of their labors and their love. They have given to the community tirelessly over the years, and they are so very proud of the place they helped to grow and sustain.

They have weathered the years together. They have celebrated with one another, and they have weathered life's storms together. But mostly, they have laughed together and shared one another's lives.

Their personalities are varied like a rich tapestry, but they are woven together with a strong bond. They are now retired. I see them now, aging, and I acknowledge the example they have set for me. Some of them have failing health, but they continue to celebrate each week. They continue to respect one another and take time to play together.

My father is in the early stages of Alzheimer's, but this group of friends stays true. They have done this for him and for each of them who has gone through a health crisis. They continue to celebrate each Friday with love, laughter, and........ happy hour. Now that is friendship!